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Date Night With My Man

My man asked me out on a date first thing this morning.  I love that he still does this.  He makes it a priority to take me out at least every other week, and has since the day we married.  I’m a lucky lady!

I knew exactly where I wanted to go.  There is a place in town called Bread & Cup, and they do something pretty special on Saturday nights.  They shop at the Farmer’s Market which is downtown every Saturday, and make the menu for the evening based on the fresh, local produce they find.  I LOVE that!  I was at the Farmer’s Market this morning with my oldest girl, and the produce looked AMAZING.  

The problem was, when we saw the price of such a grand idea, we decided it was a bit much for our budget right now and instead ordered some Bread with Hummus & Roasted Tomato Pesto, & some wine.  We decided to enjoy the outdoor atmosphere, wet our appetites a bit on great sourdough bread and dip, and then hit another place later on for some sushi, which would be a bit more affordable.

The weather was amazing.  It was about 80 degrees with a slight breeze.  

The bread and dip was perfection, and quite filling!

Just as we were finishing up, the clouds rolled in and we started hearing sprinkles hit the roof above us. It made such a calming sound, so we sat just a bit longer.

I had to take a pic of my new wedge shoes.  I’ve been wanting a pair of these ‘match with everything’ colored shoes.  They are super comfortable and were 1/2 off at Famous Footwear. I love a good deal and a good shoe!  Let us all notice that I need a pedicure.  I’m thinking that should be something I do right after the kids go back to school. 
We left Bread & Cup and went just a couple blocks over to Dozo Sushi & Grill.  I’m a big fan of their sushi.
By now the rain was really starting to come down, but thanks to Todd dropping me off at the door I stayed dry.

I am a huge sushi lover and have to have it at least every couple weeks.  Todd loves it too, and he especially loves the music they play at this place, which he comments on every time we go.  I think it’s cute.  

 We shared just one order of sushi as the bread really did fill us both up quite a bit.

I took a few shots outside while waiting for my man to pick me up after we ate.  I love being downtown!  The rain had stopped but the clouds still looked like they had a bit left to give..

We have desperately needed rain here in the Midwest, so this was a welcomed site.

A coffee house right next to the Sushi Grill.  How perfect.  My two favs.

 Now we are home, kids are settled down, and Todd is waiting for me to get this post up so we can finish our date.  He has popcorn and a movie all ready to go.  I am a very spoiled and blessed girl!

FAMILY/ Healthy Eating/ HOME/ Meals/ Parenting/ RECIPES/ Simplifying

Need School Lunch Ideas & Inspiration? So Did I. Here Ya Go!

Best School Lunch Inspiration, healthy and eco friendly ideas | New Nostalgia

I am on a mission this year to make our school lunches something my kids look forward to.  I also want to feel good about the food I serve them.  By the end of the school year last year, if I even mentioned peanut butter and jelly all 3 of my girls would moan.

I’ve been scouring the web for inspiration and guess what?  I AM SUPER INSPIRED!

I’ve learned that half the battle is having the right equipment, so today I will be going shopping for thermoses, containers & ice packets.  I am so tired of buying little baggies, not to mention the waste, so small containers it is.  They will eventually pay for themselves with the money I save in not buying those zippy little baggies!

On to my inspiration:

This first pin share is a great way to get started.  I am going to print it off and keep it on my refrigerator for inspiration & a quick reference when I am making my grocery list.  It is a list of lunch box ideas sorted according to each type of food–fruit, vegetable, dessert, fillers, etc.

Source: flickr.com via New on Pinterest

This is an awesome site.  This mom documented every lunch she packed for her child for a year.  She said the square box she uses in each lunch is from Target.  I like how she uses a muffin liner to separate foods.  She also writes that she uses press and seal for any “spillable” foods like yogurt or dips.

Make smoothies, freeze them, then put them in lunch box.  They will freeze just enough by lunch time, and also act as a cold pak.

This is a great post by my blog friend Cassidy at Remodelaholic.   She lists 25 best school lunches, some are quite creative.  I like the simplicity of the lunch pictured above.  A silicone muffin liner is another way to separate food, and is reusable.

This is a super fun idea if your kids are banana lovers. Write on them with toothpicks and as the day goes on, the message appears.

I know I will fall back on the trusty peanut butter and jelly sandwich once in awhile, but I don’t think my girls will mind if I add some interesting & healthy sides to it.  That power bar looks awesome, huh? Click link under the photo for the recipe.

This site is in Spanish, but the picture speaks for itself.  What a simple, cute & healthy way to express love.  Kids love and notice little touches.

Source: family.go.com via New on Pinterest

This photo is from the Disney family site.  They have a TON of great ideas for school lunches, all organized and divided up according to what your child’s tastes are.  I love this one with hummus, flat bread and tabbouleh.  Again, the cupcake liners serve as dividers.

Aren’t these so cute.  Easy and sweet.  I’m gonna have my 9 year old make the clips, but I won’t tell her what I plan on doing with them!

School lunch vanilla parfait.  I plan to put my mason jars to good use with this idea!  Yum.

The rest of my shares will be from this amazing site called Easy Lunch Boxes.  There are so many ideas!  I will share my favs:

Served with a thermos of lentil soup.

Served with a thermos of tomato soup.

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FAMILY/ Healthy Eating/ How-Tos/ Parenting/ RECIPES

12 Ways To Get Kids To Eat Their Fruits And Vegetables

*a repost from the archives
 I have had much success in getting my kids to eat their fruits and vegetables. 
How?

By appealing to the things they love!

~Kids love COLOR
~Kids love GAMES
~Kids love LEARNING
~Kids love feeling “GROWN UP”

Below are some tips that appeal to these very things:

1. Keep It Fun & Playful, Like A Game
 We try to “eat the rainbow” every day in our home.  We talk often about the importance of getting some of each color, everyday. It is 1:00 p.m. and I just asked my 8 year old a question I ask often, “How many colors have you had today?”  Her answer, “Blue blueberries in my oatmeal for breakfast, orange orange juice, yellow banana with my lunch, green asparagus with lunch, red apple with  lunch, green kale for snack, blended up in my fruit- smoothie popsicle.

2. Take Advantage Of Kids Natural Desire To Learn  
Why do we need to eat our fruits and vegetables?  When kids understand the reason for doing something they are much more likely to cooperate. Learn together what “free radicals” are and why we don’t want them in our bodies. Teach what “antioxidants” are what they do to help our bodies. Learn the different nutrients and vitamins in each fruit and vegetable, and how they benefit the body.  “Nutrition For Dummies” is a great resource for teaching simple nutrition lessons.


3. Shop The Rainbow
This can be fun and easily turned into a game.  In the car on the way to the grocery store, talk about how you are going to “shop the rainbow.” Ask the kids for their help.  Ask them to name as many “red” fruits and vegetables as they can.  When they can’t think of anymore, ask them to name the “yellows.”  You could even have one make a list of all the vegetables you come up with under each color category, then vote in the car what you should buy in each category.  Circle those items, take it into the store with you as your grocery list.

4. Take Advantage Of Color
Comment on the  natural beauty of fruits and vegetables.  Talk about all the different, beautiful hues.  The deep purple of eggplant, the bright red of strawberries the bright green of broccoli. While you are admiring the colors also notice all the beautiful shapes and textures. We use mason jars in our home for food storage.  I have many reasons, but my favorite reason is that you can easily see what is in the jar.  There is nothing better than opening the refrigerator and seeing jars full of shredded orange carrots, bright green peas, yellow pepper strips, or balls of pink watermelon.  My kids know that if they are still hungry after a “salty” or “sweet” snack that they can go to the refrigerator and help themselves to the vegetables in mason jars.  I love seeing them grab a jar, grab the dip, and munch away!


5. Keep Your Power 
It is important to keep healthful eating lighthearted and playful, but there will also be times when it is not, and we will have to be the parent. If your kids need medicine it is your job to make them take it. Good food is just as important.  We look at fruits and vegetables as medicine in our home, “Nature’s Pharmacy.”  My kids know that eating their fruits and vegetables is not an option.  They know it is a necessity and it is expected. 

6. Implement This Simple Rule 
To keep power struggles to a minimum, especially at the dinner table, our rule is “no eating your main dish until your vegetable is gone.”  This is very effective.  They come to the table very hungry, smelling the spaghetti and garlic bread.  They are sitting there face to face with their desires.  They eventually give in and eat their vegetable.  It is a great strategy which takes advantage of the fact that everything tastes better when you are hungry!  This rule was needed when they were younger, but we rarely use it anymore as our expectations are now known.
7. Keep Portions Small
Especially when introducing a new vegetable!  Give them time to acclimate to new textures and tastes.  Broccoli is not my girls favorite vegetable so we started with one small broccoli floret, and worked our way to almost a full serving. Gradually work the serving size up to at least a 1/2 cup.

8. Appeal To Kids Desire To Feel “Grown-Up”
One of the most simple strategies we have used is saying (as they are chewing with scrunched up noses), “Oh, you don’t like that vegetable?  Your taste buds must not be old enough for that one yet.  Maybe next time you taste it, it will be different.”  This creates a positive goal in our home, being old enough and having a “mature enough palate” to like all types of vegetables.

9. Talk About Palates
We watch “Top Chef” as a family.  It has been very educational when it comes to different types of foods.  We comment on how the judges have such mature palates.  When my kids like something healthy I will say, “Wow, you have such a healthy palate!”  We have even talked about how eating just a bite or two of a new taste and texture can help train our palates to appreciate all types of food.  This appeals to kids desire to feel “grown-up” and also keeps things lighthearted and fun, like a game.

10. Teach About Texture
Again, the show “Top Chef” has been helpful in this area.  The judges are always talking about how a certain dish needs more “texture.”  For the longest time my kids would complain about lettuce and tomatoes on their tacos.  It would frustrate me because it turned a healthful meal into a “meat and cheese” meal.  Not what I wanted.  So, one night when having tacos, I casually said, “I bet the “Top Chef” judges would say your tacos need more texture.”  I saw this sparked their curiosity and continued, “Lettuce gives a type of crispy crunch and tomatoes are soft and cool down the spice of the meat.  Wow, the textures of the food work and taste beautifully together!”  It worked.  They tried it and agreed. Yes!

11. Make It A Game
Hang a chart on the refrigerator to keep track of “who ate the most colors that day”.  If it is over 5 servings give a sticker!  Or make a matching game- match the color of fruit or vegetable with the main nutrient it provides.  This is a great way for adults to learn too!

12. Grow Them
The last two years, we have had much fun with our Square Foot Garden. {link-https://www.amynewnostalgia.com/time-to-garden/}  When my kids watch something grow from a seed they squished into the dirt they are very eager to eat the reward.

{wrapped lettuce photo here}

Simple Ways We Eat Fruits And Vegetables
~Frozen berries in cold cereal
~Frozen berries in oatmeal
~A bowl of frozen berries thawed to perfection during dinner in time for dessert
~Apple slices almond butter
{link-https://www.amynewnostalgia.com/my-favorite-healthy-snack/}
~Bananas sliced on bran flakes for breakfast
~Banana slices on whole wheat peanut butter bagel
~Celery and peanut butter or cream cheese
~Pepper strips and hummus
~Cucumber slices and dip
~Frozen grapes-so refreshing!
~A 6 cup muffin tin full of different colors for snack
~Clementine slices on our salads
~Frozen mango chunks in a bowl
~Edamame with sea salt-my kids favorite
~Fruit smoothies made green by blending in spinach
~Eggplant in place of beef in our spaghetti sauce
~Fruit kabobs-so pretty and fun
~Fresh berries in pancakes
~Homemade, no- cook berry jam
{link-https://www.amynewnostalgia.com/strawberry-freezer-jam/}
~Sliced berries on ice cream
~Spinach salad with mason jars full of vegetable toppings to add themselves
~Make our own fresh vegetable and fruit juices using our juicer.
FAMILY/ Parenting

Speaking Your Child’s Love Language-Part 1 – Purposeful Living

These posts written by Todd (Amy’s husband) are designed to model a system of purposeful living.  At least once a month, I spend time setting meaningful goals around one of seventeen core priorities.

If you missed it, consider reading the foundation post – Purposeful Living #1.

Correct Priority
Priority #5 – Social Health – Immediate Family–Children (Social & Emotional Health)

Goal Setting & Reflection Date
Sunday, March 6

Goal
Invest in the social and emotional health of my middle daughter and strengthen my relationship with her by figuring out a way to spend quality one-on-one time with her.   

Goal Status
Completed

Thoughts
For years I feel have missed the mark with our middle girl, who is 11.  I know how she is wired and I know how she best receives love, but I have not been effective in tapping into either of these parts of her personality.

I have felt that Amy and I have done better with our other two daughters.  Amy has spent hours supporting our oldest daughter (age 12) in developing her duct tape business called Twisted Tape.  And I have spent hours (and hours and hours and hours) supporting our youngest daughter (age 9) develop her soccer skills. But I have missed the mark with my middle girl.  She has not received the same level of focused attention.


This is sad because her love language is Quality Time.  She loves having mom or dad all to herself. 

(For more on children’s love languages, read this book: The Five Love Languages of Children)

Despite this ongoing failure, I am happy to report that in March I set a goal to find a solution to this problem and within a few days came up with a couple of ideas that have proven hugely successful. 

On my end, I tapped into her love of reading.  She saved up for a Kindle Fire and routinely stays up way too late reading books under her covers in her room when I think she is asleep. 

I also love books and own my own Kindle Fire, so doing this together seemed like a no brainer.

For the months of April, May, June, and July I picked out one evening each month and took her to Barnes & Noble. 

Upon arrival, I head to the café area to purchase a root beer and snag a table while she shops for a book of her choice.  As long as I approve of the content of the book, she can purchase pretty much any book she wants. 

After she finds a book we purchase it electronically on her Kindle.  Then she joins me at the café where I purchase her a snack of her choice from the bakery. We spend our remaining time reading.  And sipping our root beer.  And munching on our snacks.  And discussing our books.  And chatting about life.

It is precious time with my middle daughter.  I look forward to it every month and I am pretty sure she does too.

{Family Trip To The Zoo 2012}

The next post in this series will explain how Amy is also spending Quality Time with her by tapping into her love of reading.  The two of us are working well as a team to spoil our sweet middle child with one-on-one attention. 
Link To Foundation Post
Purposeful Living #1

Outline Of All Purposeful Living Posts
Purposeful Living Series
 

Love/ Music Renews

Something Beautiful


{Something Beautiful by Newsboys}

I heard this song in the car this morning, it is an oldie but goody.  It is a happy tune but this time I got a bit teary as I listened.

My niece is getting married in 2 days!  We may not be jumping up and down during the ceremony like in the above video, but it WILL be a celebration for sure!

I feel pretty sentimental about it, as I remember her dancing with me at my wedding (16 years ago!) during the dollar dance.  She told her mom “I want to dance with the princess.”  Aww.  Now it is her turn to be princess.

She has grown into a lovely young lady whom I admire much.  I am  thankful for her example to my 3 girls, they have always looked up to their “older girl cousin.”  I also admire her strength, as she has an autoimmune disorder that gives her pain and issues.  I learn from her, I watch her deal with her health hardships with bluntness and humor and I love it!

Hannah, you did good.  You got a great guy and you are going to make a beautiful bride and great wife. You have made this Aunt proud.  I love you!
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The song also made me think of all the beautiful things in this life that I have grown to have the eyes to see.  My eyes are especially open, due to my recent MRI test/scare & my Grandpa’s passing.

I love living!  I love life!  I love my family!

I see so much beauty everywhere:

~in my daughters eyelashes resting on her cheek while she sleeps

~in the sun reflection sparkle at the pool

~in elderly men, long time friends, greeting each other at the coffee shop

~in the lines at the sides of my husbands eyes that seem to twinkle when he smiles at me

So. Much. Beauty.

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Something Beautiful by Newsboys

I wanna start it over 
I wanna start again 
I want a new a new beginning 
One without any end 
I feel it inside 
Calling out to me 

CHORUS 
It’s a voice that whispers my name 
It’s a kiss without any shame 
Something beautiful 
Like a song that stirs in my head 
Singing love will take us where 
Something’s beautiful 

I’ve heard it in the silence 
Seen it on a face 
I’ve felt it in a long hour 
Like a sweet embrace 
I know this is true 
It’s calling out to me 

CHORUS 
It’s a voice that whispers my name 
It’s a kiss without any shame 
Something beautiful 
Like a song that stirs in my head 
Singing love will take us where 
Something’s beautiful 

It’s the child on her wedding day 
It’s the daddy that gives her away–Father 
Something beautiful 
When we laugh so hard we cry 
It’s the love between you and I 
Something beautiful 

FAMILY/ How-Tos/ Meals/ Parenting/ RECIPES

Saucy Asian Meatballs & Getting Your Kids To Help In The Kitchen

I will get to this awesome recipe of Saucy Asian Meatballs in just a minute.  It made my whole family VERY happy and I enjoyed the sauce with veggies and rice.  But first let me tell you how it came about that this recipe even made it into our family favorites.

I am reading a book on parenting (whose title I will share with you soon when I remember it…I am sitting in a coffee shop and it is at home).  Anyway…it is an awesome book that has my wheels turning when it comes to parenting and what I expect out of my kids.

It has challenged me to challenge my kids. To expect more out of them and to encourage them to do things they don’t think they can or don’t want to do.

My oldest who will be 13 in a month, REALLY does not like to cook.  At least I thought she didn’t like to cook.  Every time I would try to pull her in the kitchen, she would shuffle, moan, groan & we would end up frustrated with each other.  I have decided that learning to cook is a non-negotiable in our home, as I want them prepared as possible to run a home of their own someday, so I have been trying to come up with a way to make cooking less of a drudgery for my oldest.

Enter Pinterest.  I have watched my daughter slowly build a following on Pinterest as she has super great taste and an eye for beauty.  She loves pinning things, and I noticed one of her boards was named “Get In My Belly.”  I checked out the recipes she pinned, and noticed that many of them were cheesy and full of sugar, so I cringed when I found myself saying to her, “Hey, how about you pick a recipe from your ‘Get In My Belly‘ boards to make for dinner.  I will let you pick what you want, I will buy the ingredients, but you have to make it.”

She immediately went to her boards and I was pleased with what she chose.  I was happy it was not deep fried or oozing with cheese and cream of something soup.  She chose Saucy Asian Meatballs.

I was interested to see if she would follow through with no complaining, and she did just that.  I sat in with her at the table, but I was very careful not do anything but guide her with my words.  She did all the chopping, shaping and baking.  I was amazed and very proud of my non-cook, cooking!

It took a few minutes to get her to use her hands to mix the raw meat mixture (can you blame her?) But, she gave in and we laughed about her dramatic facial expressions as she mixed by hand.  Blech.

Here she is with her finished dinner.  I showed her how to prepare rice in our rice cooker & make a side of frozen vegetables.  Her dinner got rave reviews from her sisters and her dad, who loves great flavor & “mmm’ed” all through dinner.

{Wanna pin it? She would be thrilled.  Pin button down by the comments}

 I was proud and so was she.  I’m eager to see if this will work again with her.  I sure hope so.  I totally enjoyed being with her in the kitchen and I loved seeing how empowered she felt by working hard and producing an entire meal by herself!

Want to follow her on Pinterest?  I know she would be thrilled to see her numbers grow.

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Saucy Asian Meatballs Recipe

 

*we doubled the sauce to make sure we had enough for my rice & veggies

{from Give Me Some Oven, click through for amazing photos of this recipe! She also talks about the flavor & how they won a taste testing contest by her friends after making numerous meatball recipes}

Ingredients:

Meatball Ingredients:

  • 2 lbs. ground pork or ground beef (we used beef, local & grass fed)
  • 2 tsp. sesame oil
  • 1 cup Panko or breadcrumbs (we used regular breadcrumbs)
  • 1/2 tsp. ground ginger
  • 2 eggs
  • 3 tsp. minced garlic
  • 1/2 cup thinly-sliced green onions
  • optional garnish: toasted sesame seeds, sliced scallions

Asian Sauce Ingredients:

  • 2/3 cup hoisin sauce
  • 1/4 cup rice vinegar
  • 2 garlic cloves, minced
  • 2 Tbsp. soy sauce
  • 1 tsp. sesame oil
  • 1 tsp. ground ginger

Method:

Preheat oven to 400.

In a large bowl, mix together meatball ingredients until well-combined.  Shape into balls (I made mine about 1.5 inches, which yielded about 35 meatballs, but 1 inch is probably standard), and place on a greased baking sheet or in a 9×13 baking dish.  Bake for 10-12 minutes, or until meatballs are golden on the outside and no longer pink on the inside.

While the meatballs are baking, whisk together all of the sauce ingredients until blended.  Once meatballs have finished cooking, you can either dip each meatball individually (using a toothpick) in the sauce mixture.  Or you can pour the sauce over the meatballs and gently stir them until covered.

 

 

FAMILY/ Parenting

Paying Attention To Our Children-Part 2 – Purposeful LIving


These posts written by Todd (Amy’s husband) are designed to model a system of purposeful living.  At least once a month, I spend time setting meaningful goals around one of seventeen core priorities.


If you missed it, consider reading the foundation post – Purposeful Living #1. 




Correct Priority
Priority #5 – Social Health – Immediate Family–Children (Teagan-Social & Emotional Health)


Preface
Many dads get the big stuff right.  But it is the little things that make our children feel special, valued, and cherished.  Paying Attention To Our Children will be an ongoing series highlighting the little ways in which I purposefully notice the little things in the lives of my girls. 


In most cases I think I care far more about the details than they do, but even in these cases there is one thing of which I am certain – they know I love them.  And a child who feels loved and cherished by their father (in addition to mom) is a child better positioned to thrive.     


Goal Setting & Reflection Date
Sunday, January 29


Goal
Once a month purchase a bag of candy to put in the candy dispenser she got for Christmas. 


Goal Status
Completed (Ongoing-Monthly)


Thoughts
Our oldest, Teagan, received a very cool gum/candy dispenser for Christmas.  It is battery powered and a few pieces of gum or candy are released by simply waving your hand under the area where the candy is dispensed. 


Amy and I have purchased the girls a gum machine or two over the years.  But they were usually rinky-dink little things that broke within a week.  Or when the gum ran out they were forgotten and eventually tossed.


But this particular gum dispenser was pretty cool and the entire family would sneak into Teagan’s room on occasion to grab a snack.  Teagan also thought it was a neat gift.  So much so that when the candy ran out towards the end of January she asked if I would take her to the store so she could spend her own money to refill it.

{At the candy store…now THAT’S a candy machine!}

I made a decision right then that at the beginning of each month Teagan and I would shop together for a new snack for her candy dispenser.  And I would pay for it.  Normally my girls need to spend their own money if they want candy.  But in this case I decided to make an exception.    


In March we bought Pretzel M&M’s.  In April we bought Skittles.  For May and June we bought Gobstoppers.    


Link To Foundation Post


Outline Of All Purposeful Living Posts
Purposeful Living Series


Links To Additional Posts In This Series 
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